Why So Many Men Feel Aimless and What to Do About it with John D'Agostini

In this episode of the Modern Masculinity Podcast, Hector engages in a deep and insightful conversation with John D'Agostini. John, who has worked with over 10,000 young men over the course of his career, shares his personal journey and the importance of self-discovery and brotherhood in a man's life. He emphasizes the need for men to question societal norms and expectations, and to engage in self-study to understand their true selves. John also discusses the challenges men face in today's society, including emotional incompetence, demotivation, and mental health issues. He underscores the importance of media nutrition, being aware of what one consumes through media.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 - Introduction to the Modern Masculinity Podcast: Navigating Today's Masculine Identity
• 00:03:59 - Balancing Family and a Driven Lifestyle: Finding Equilibrium
• 00:05:11 - Prioritizing Family and Self-care: Evolving Personal Needs
• 00:10:15 - Defining Masculinity on Our Terms: Breaking Stereotypes
• 00:11:23 - Embracing Healthy Masculinity: Challenging Toxic Traits
• 00:13:28 - Admiring Women, Valuing Fatherhood: A Personal Perspective
• 00:15:16 - Consistency and Affection as a Parent: Building Emotional Bonds
• 00:19:06 - Self-evolution and Male Connections: Growth and Support
• 00:20:43 - Power of Male Connection: Accountability and Camaraderie
• 00:22:43 - Guiding Young Men in Navigating Masculinity: Providing Wisdom
• 00:25:28 - Men's Reactions and Self-exploration: Addressing Personal Issues
• 00:26:57 - Meaningful Sex: Authenticity and Connection
• 00:29:32 - Embracing Emotions as Human: Breaking Barriers
• 00:31:24 - Fatherhood: Being Present for Kids' Emotions
• 00:33:50 - Self-discovery and Brotherhood: Vital for Men's Health
• 00:36:46 - John D'Agostini's Book 'Aimless: A Journey to Constructive Masculinity' and Online Connection Details

Links And Resources:

• Aimless
• Website
• John D'Agostini on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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