The Death of the 'Nice Guy': Masculinity, Media, and Finding Your True Self with Dr. Robert Glover

Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, shares how he overcame the "Nice Guy" syndrome and why so many men fall into the trap of people-pleasing and conflict avoidance. He dives into the deep emotional struggles men face, from setting boundaries to dealing with shame, and explains how societal influences have shaped modern masculinity. Dr. Glover offers advice on breaking free from these patterns, embracing authenticity, and reclaiming personal power, making this a must-listen for men looking to transform their relationships and themselves.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 - Welcome to the Show! Meet Dr. Glover
• 00:01:49 - Dr. Glover’s Journey and Insights
• 00:03:26 - The Trap of Being a 'Nice Guy'
• 00:07:32 - Generational Chains: How 'Nice Guy' Traits Are Passed Down
• 00:11:13 - The Journey to Authenticity: Why Breaking Free is So Hard
• 00:20:24 - Media Influence on Masculinity
• 00:25:04 - Optimism for the Future
• 00:31:52 - Leaving the Nice Guy Behind: Embracing Your True Self
• 00:32:22 - Masculine Embodiment: What It Really Means
• 00:35:00 - Grounding and Breathwork: Tools for Men to Reclaim Their Power
• 00:40:26 - Shedding Shame: The Power of Vulnerability and Honesty
• 00:46:54 - The Rise of Men's Groups: Why Men Need Other Men
• 00:49:22 - Setting Boundaries: The Foundation for Healthy Relationships
• 00:56:28 - Redefining Modern Masculinity: Dr. Glover’s Final Thoughts

Links and Resources:

• Dr. Robert Glover
• Dr. Glover on YouTube
• No More Mr. Nice Guy
• Dr. Glover on Facebook
• Discover Your Nice Guy Pattern
• Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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