Purpose Without a Map: The Hard Questions Men Need to Ask Themselves with Pablo Orrantia

Hector sits down with Pablo—music producer and somatic breathwork practitioner—for a vulnerable conversation about navigating purpose, presence, and the paradox of modern masculinity. As a single man looking ahead to fatherhood, Pablo questions how much of his time should be spent on personal development versus being of service to others. Together, they explore the tension between self-work and contribution, the quiet weight of unrealized potential, and the profound shifts that happen when a man begins to ask, “What am I really doing with my energy?” Through honest dialogue and embodied wisdom, this episode offers a refreshing take on masculine growth, responsibility, and preparing for what's next—without losing who you are right now.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 - Who Is Pablo? The Path Begins
• 00:01:24 - The Quiet Battles Men Carry
• 00:03:48 - Dating, Depth, and Masculine Energy
• 00:07:43 - When Casual Isn’t Emotionless
• 00:13:02 - Breathwork, Trauma, and Real Healing
• 00:21:01 - Masculinity Reimagined: Final Reflections

Links And Resources:

• Pablo’s Music Production
• Pablo’s Somatic Breathwork
• Pablo on Instagram
• Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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