Beyond Stoicism: The Rise of Interdependent Men with Ed Frauenheim

Hector Santiesteban welcomes back Ed Frauenheim, co-author of Reinventing Masculinity and co-founder of The Teal Team, for a timely and timeless discussion on evolving manhood. Ed takes us deep into his current work challenging the "Tough Guy Show" culture—especially in traditionally masculine spaces like the ski industry—and sheds light on how that outdated performance is mirrored in global leadership. Together, they unpack the emotional, societal, and spiritual costs of stoicism, and why today's man must learn to embrace vulnerability, interdependence, and self-reflection to grow. Whether you're navigating fatherhood, rethinking your career, or searching for community, this conversation offers a compass toward something more grounded, authentic, and liberating.

Chapters:

• 00:00:00 - Welcome to the Masculine Shift
• 00:01:39 - Chaos, Headlines & Our Mental State
• 00:02:39 - Rethinking Manhood in Real Time
• 00:04:49 - Panic, Purpose, and Personal Truths
• 00:06:59 - Scrolling, Boundaries & Staying Grounded
• 00:09:06 - Power, Pressure & Performing Masculinity
• 00:12:45 - Is Vulnerability Still Seen as Weakness?
• 00:15:08 - Trump, Culture, and the Mirror of Manhood
• 00:18:22 - What Are We Teaching Young Men?
• 00:21:30 - Redefining Strength Through Collaboration
• 00:23:42 - Who’s Really Holding the Power?
• 00:29:17 - Hope for Young Men & the Road Ahead

Links And Resources:

• Website
• The Teal Team
• Ed Frauenheim on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on LinkedIn
• Hector Santiesteban on Twitter

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